THERE’S NO “I” IN COMMUNITY... ER...

I find that feminists today are the quickest to undermine the female gender, by victimizing themselves and purposely calling out attacks on their gender where there are none. Alot of "feminists"(quotation marks because I think they are a disgrace to the original feminist movement) therefore blame some sort of evil patriarchic force, a congloberation of men on a mission to oppress them, when they face problems(or non-problems that they themselves turn into problems), that really affect everyone regardless of gender. This victimizing implies that females are weak, and should be protected and get special treatment, which I whole-heartedly disagree with(and is pretty much how patriarchy worked). 
It seems like modern feminism is a sexist movement, there are few other groups or movements in the western world that generalize and stereotype genders more than they do.

And by doing that, they are also undermining the real problems that come with equality, slowing down the process. Because with equal rights and opportunities comes unequal treatment(economically and socially), and that must be a really difficult problem to tackle. But complaints about "hero adventure"-type media genres being male-dominated(which depends solely on the market, btw) and similar self-absorbed complaints, are drawing attention away from those real problems.

I would stand up for womens rights any day, I would truly fight for it. But I am really concerned about feminism as the extremist irrational belief that it has become, especially because it is "protected", since disagreeing automatically makes you sexist in many peoples eyes.